Thinking about Kid Free Wedding? Here are the Pros and Cons of No Kids at Your Wedding.
- SpringHaus Farm Weddings
- Oct 13
- 4 min read
Updated: 1 day ago
Thinking about Kid Free Wedding? Here are the Pros and Cons of No Kids at Your Wedding.
Planning a wedding can be exhilarating, yet a wee bit challenging as well! When it comes to decisions about your guests, who to invite, do you include a plus 1 or not, and what about that friend of your mom's who has 4 unruly kids? One of the most delicate decisions in wedding planning is to decide if you are going to include kids in your special day. If you’re leaning toward a "kid free wedding" or want to ensure that kids are properly supervised, this blog will detail how to communicate your wishes effectively and gracefully to your guests. Thinking about kid free wedding? Here are the pros and cons of no kids at your wedding.
Set Expectations Early
The best way to inform and confirm with all guests about your kid free wedding will be to include it in your wedding save the dates and invites. Consider a line such as, “We are kindly requesting that our special day be an adult-only celebration.” This way, guests can plan accordingly without any confusion. If you’re allowing kids but want them supervised, you might phrase it like, “Children are welcome, but parents must supervise their little ones throughout our special day, this is a requirement of the venue.” Regardless of your decision, it may even be appropriate to hire an adult to coral the kids, 1 adult per 8 kids is recommended.
Use Your Wedding Website
A wedding website is a tool for transferring important information above and beyond what can place on an invitation. Why not have your OWN wedding website as a venue owner! It might be best to create an area dedicated to event or venue policies. This is where you can politely explain your stance on kids. Possibly elaborate on why you’ve made this choice, perhaps citing the venue’s requirements or the need for a distraction-free environment. For example, you could mention that the venue emphasizes the importance of supervision to prevent any damage that could incur costs for you as a couple.
Consider Your Venue’s Policies
It is essential to align your guest policies with your venue's rules. SpringHaus Farm, located just 15 miles from Athens, GA, is a stunning outdoor and rustic barn venue set to open on October 27, 2024. While SpringHaus Farm can accommodate both kid-friendly events and adult-only weddings, they do require that children be supervised at all times. It is important to make sure to share your venue policy information with your guests, explaining that the venue's guidelines are in place to ensure the safety and enjoyment of all.
Communicate with Your Close Circle
For guests who may be affected by your policy, like family and close friends, a personal conversation can go a long way. A simple call or message expressing your excitement about the wedding and explaining your decision can help set the tone and allow the guests with kids to understand your stance. Being upfront with those who may have concerns can help minimize any hurt feelings. SpringHaus Farm will support whatever decision you and your partner decide on!
Provide Alternatives
If you know some of your guests will have difficulty finding childcare, consider offering suggestions for local childcare providers or nearby family-friendly activities. This shows that you understand their situation and want them to be able to enjoy your day stress-free. SpringHaus Farm doesn't offer childcare and won't be responsible for watching your guest's kids, so making sure they are supervised so things like tablescapes don't get broken or kids don't go running up and down the steps and get hurt is important.
Be Prepared for Mixed Reactions and RSVP declines
Not everyone will agree with your decision, and that’s okay. Remember, this is your special day, not theirs. Some guests may express disappointment or anger, especially those with kids. It is important to remain firm yet gracious in your response, reiterating that your choice was made with thoughtful consideration of your wedding vision and the venue's policies. And, all else fails it may be 4-5 less mouths to feed!
Deciding whether to allow kids at your wedding is a personal choice that should reflect you and your partner's vision for the day. If you opt for a kid-free event or require supervision for children, communicating this effectively and kindly will help set the right expectations. At SpringHaus Farm, you’ll find the perfect rustic backdrop for your celebration, with the flexibility to create the event you envisioned, just remember to keep your guests informed.
SpringHaus Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally-owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication, and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout-out in our blog. You can find locally-owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
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