Bless Your Heart, But Don’t Do That: What NOT to Do as a Wedding Guest at your Athens, GA wedding
- SpringHaus Farm Weddings
- May 12
- 4 min read
Bless Your Heart, But Don’t Do That: What NOT to Do as a Wedding Guest at your Athens, GA wedding
At SpringHaus Farm, nestled just 15 miles outside of Athens, Georgia, we’ve hosted our fair share of I-do’s. From sweet tea sipping on the patio and dancing in our beautiful white oak barn, we’ve seen it all, the love stories, the laughter, and yes... even the well-meaning guests who missed the memo on Southern wedding manners and charm.
Whether you're a seasoned attendee or this is your first time celebrating a couple at any wedding, here’s a friendly guide on what not to do when you’re a guest at any wedding.
Bless Your Heart, But Don’t Do That: What NOT to Do as a Wedding Guest at your Athens, GA wedding
🚫 Don’t Wear White (Or Anything That Screams “Look at Me”)
This might be old news, but it’s worth repeating louder for the folks in the back, unless the bride says so, white is off-limits. That also goes for super sparkly, neon, red, or anything that might upstage the couple. This day is about them, sugar, not your fashion statement or a time for people to look at you. Be respectful and let them
📱 Don’t Be the Paparazzi
We know Aunt Tilda just got a new non-flip iPhone, but please, resist the urge to record every second. If the couple has hired a professional photographer (and we guarantee they have, our golden-hour barn photos are dreamy), let them do their job. Keep your phone tucked away, especially during the ceremony. Nothing says “oops” like a ringer going off mid-vow or that special first kiss with phones in the picture.
⏰ Don’t Show Up Late (or Too Early, Bless Your Heart)
We love enthusiasm, but showing up 45 minutes early while our team is still setting up isn’t helpful, it’s actually super hectic, because while we would love to pull up a chair and chat, we have a lot of things happening behind the scenes to make perfect day for the couple. And coming in after the ceremony has started? Well, that just isn't at all polite. Aim to arrive 15–20 minutes early so you can find a seat, take in the scenery, and get ready for some joy.
🐴 Don’t Wander Off the Beaten Path
SpringHaus Farm might feel like a fairytale, 20 acres, the barn, pine trees, even a few critters, but it’s still a private property. Please don’t go exploring uninvited (yes, that includes the neighbor's cow pasture, and yes, we’ve had to shoo guests away before). Stick to the designated wedding areas and save the farm tour for another visit.
🍽️ Don’t Forget to RSVP (Or Bring Surprise Plus-Ones)
We plan with love, and a head count. The couple chose every plate, every chair, and every biscuit for a reason. So please, don’t bring a date unless your invite said "and guest," and if you forgot to RSVP… well, now’s a good time to send a kind note and a gift to make up for it.
🥂 Don’t Overdo It at the Open Bar
We’re all here for a good time, but not that kind of good time. A glass of sweet wine, a craft beer, a toast with champagne? Absolutely. But no one wants to remember Cousin Eddie as the guy who tried to dive off the spiral staircase. Keep it classy, y’all.
🎤 Don’t Steal the Mic
Unless you’ve been asked to give a speech or toast, please don’t jump in to “just say a little something.” There's a time and place for karaoke, and this is NOT it. The newlyweds have carefully chosen who they want to speak. Trust us, it's better that way.
💐 Don’t Mess with the Decor (or the Donkey)
We love that you love our flower arrangements, rustic signs, and wood exposures. But please, no sneaking off with centerpieces, rearranging the ceremony chairs for better Instagram angles, or feeding the animals wedding cake. (Yes, really. No cake for Radar the donkey.)
At SpringHaus Farm, we believe weddings are about community, joy, and celebrating love with your whole heart. Being a great guest isn’t about perfection, it’s about being present, respectful, and part of the magic. Laugh, dance, cheer, and be kind.
We’ll take care of the rest.
See y’all at SpringHaus Farm!
Planning your own event or want to book a tour? Reach out to us at SpringHausFarm or follow us on Instagram @SpringHausFarm for daily doses of wedding beauty and behind-the-scenes charm.
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